Monogram-themed
BY TRESA ERICKSON

As young girls, many of us filled notebooks with scribbles of our school crushes. While some of us penned secret notes to the apples of our eye, others of us daydreamed of marriage and becoming Mrs. So and So. Some of us even wrote down what our new names and initials would be. While most of us did not marry our childhood crush, we did get new initials, and for many brides to be, these initials present the perfect opportunity for personalizing the wedding.

Monogram-themed weddings are not new. For centuries, brides have included monograms in various aspects of their weddings as a symbol of their commitment and the new chapter in life they are about to start.

If you are interested in having a monogram-themed wedding, you must first decide how you are going to use the monograms of both you and the groom. Will you use them in combination, separately or both ways? To answer this question, you might want to consider the items you plan to monogram. On smaller pieces like champagne flutes and napkins, space is limited and a combination of monograms may not fit. In this case, it might be best to place your monogram on half the flutes and napkins and the groom's monogram on the other half.

Almost anything can be monogrammed. Many brides choose to have their invitations, envelope seals and postage stamps monogrammed, while others focus specifically on items in their reception, like table linens, placecards and napkins. The majority of wedding decorations from aisle runners to ringbearer's pillows to centerpieces can be monogrammed Wedding favors are another personal monogrammed favorite.

As you are selecting items to monogram, keep in mind that some of your more conservative guests may disapprove of your new initials appearing on anything dealing with events prior to your actual wedding ceremony. If you have a lot of conservative guests on your list, you might want to stick to using monograms at your reception only.

Be creative but conservative in the use of your monograms. Hire a designer to etch them in your wedding colors and incorporate them throughout the room. Don't pile them one upon another. Monogrammed table linens, centerpieces, placecards, champagne flutes and napkins can all be a bit too much.

When used correctly, monograms can make a big impact and add flair to any wedding. Mark the union of your love and the start of your new life with a monogram-themed wedding.